“[A woman in a romantic relationship] is possessed. She is driven. When she makes that contact with that kind of energy, no man can ever turn away.” Leonard Cohen 1966

Interviewer: “Don’t men choose women?”

Leonard Cohen: “Any man who feels he’s made a choice of women is gravely mistaken. The man has nothing to do with it whatsoever.”

Interviewer: “The woman makes the choice?”

Leonard Cohen: “No. She is possessed. She is driven. When she makes that contact with that kind of energy, no man can ever turn away.”

From Is the World (or Anybody) Ready for Leonard Cohen? by Jon Ruddy. Maclean’s: October 1, 1966. Originally posted July 19, 2014 at DrHGuy.com, a predecessor of Cohencentric

“[Teachers] is not about homosexuality as such, but yes it is about the spirit, and whether it moves toward the sun or the moon.” Leonard Cohen

Interviewer: “Several girls embraced me/Then I was embraced by men” – a line from one of his earliest songs, ‘Teachers’. Was the gay dimension part of the pattern of his exploring all points between the masculine and feminine poles?

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I don’t want to make a commentary on that or other songs. I never do. It says what it says. It’s not about homosexuality as such, but yes it is about the spirit, and whether it moves toward the sun or the moon.quotedown2

Leonard Cohen

 

From Read Leonard Cohen’s exclusive interview with Hot Press from 1988 by Joe Jackson (Hot Press: 11 Nov 2016)

Leonard Cohen “There is a kind of sexual dance going on with woman and a kind of war-dance going on with men”

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So I find I can enjoy both men and women, because even when you meet men there is a kind of war-dance going on; there is a kind of sexual dance going on with woman and a kind of war-dance going on with men. And it’s very agreeable to have those dances confined to one or two steps rather than the acrobatics that usually attended them.quotedown2

Leonard Cohen

 

Leonard Cohen, from his 2001 interview with Stina Lundberg.  Originally posted at DrHGuy.com, a predecessor of Cohencentric February 23, 2011

“I find a broadening of desire, if anything, as you get older” Leonard Cohen


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Sexual thoughts are supposed to come regularly once every six seconds. Whatever the statistic was, I wasn’t exempt from it, and am still not. I find a broadening of desire, if anything, as you get older.quotedown2

Leonard Cohen

 

From Cohen Heads Back to The Future by Spencer Bright. London Daily Mail: December 11, 1992. Originally posted Jan 15, 2014 at DrHGuy.com, a predecessor of Cohencentric

“I don’t think I came across as a particularly good lover. I’m much better at friendship.” Leonard Cohen On His Reputation As A Ladies’ Man


[Interviewer:] Cohen and I talk about his reputation as a ladies’ man…

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I wrote a song a while back called ‘I Was Never Any Good at Loving You.’ And I think it’s true. I don’t think I came across as a particularly good lover. I’m much better at friendship. But I had a strong sexual drive that overpowered every other consideration. I had no idea who the people were that I was sleeping with. I mean, my appetite for intimacy – and not just physical intimacy but the intimacy that went with that activity – was so intense that I was just interested in the essence of those things. It was just an appetite. And consequently misunderstandings and suffering from both parties arose.quotedown2

Leonard Cohen

 

2001 interview from Stories Done: Writings on the 1960s and Its Discontents by Mikal Gilmore (Free Press: July 14, 2009)

Leonard Cohen on His Treatment of Women in The Favourite Game


 
What about the argument that [Leonard Cohen] fails women [in The Favourite Game] by denying them their human personalities, setting them up as only goddesses?

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I can’t see things that way either. I don’t think anybody has failed anybody else. It’s only when you walk around with a programme or a fixed ideology or a strategy that you really encounter failure in this respect.quotedown2

Leonard Cohen

 

From Read Leonard Cohen’s exclusive interview with Hot Press from 1988 by Joe Jackson (Hot Press: 11 Nov 2016)