“The kind of visibility that one thought was essential is not attractive to the better sexual partners. On the contrary.” Leonard Cohen On Sexual Desire

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When did [wanting to be sexually desirable] start looking foolish to you?

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I think when I realized the consequences of all this love-making. It leads to houses and children, and you really realize what the thing is all about, and how it’s available for everyone in this day and age. Here one was slaving away at one’s desk writing poems and songs, hoping to attract girls or boys or whatever it was, and outside in the world, the sexual revolution took place unbeknownst to the author. Everyone was coupling behind every bush, and here he was still writing the perfect sonnet to attract the girl next door. It became quite apparent that the average chap who worked on Madison Avenue was in much better sexual condition than most of the pop stars and was exercising his appetite with greater facility. It’s much better to be the bass player than the star. Everybody knows that. If that’s what you’re interested in getting. I think that the kind of visibility that one thought was essential is not attractive to the better sexual partners. On the contrary.quotedown2

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Leonard Cohen Looks at Himself by Danny Fields. Soho Weekly News, Vol. 1, #9. December 5, 1974, Thanks to J.J. Harchaoui, who shared this article.

Leonard Cohen Looks At Commercial Success From Both Sides Now

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There have been moments when I’ve felt that I’ve betrayed myself [for commercial success] but I think I would have felt that from the other side too if I hadn’t reached a wide audience. I would then have felt that I should have put more effort into reaching people.quotedown2

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Also see Leonard Cohen’s Old Ideas Hits The Charts – And Why That Matters (Maybe)

From The Strange, Sad and Beautiful World of Leonard Cohen By Andrew Furnival. Petticoat: December 30, 1972. Originally posted Oct 17, 2013 at DrHGuy.com, a predecessor of Cohencentric

Leonard Cohen’s tentative definition of Black Romantic: “A romantic who can tell a joke about it”


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I’ve never known precisely what a Romantic was…I’ve been described as a Black Romantic – I don’t really know what that is either. That’s what – a romantic who can tell a joke about it.quotedown2

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From an August 1988 interview with Mitch Corber. Originally posted April 2, 2014 at DrHGuy.com, a predecessor of Cohencentric

“That’s one of the reasons I don’t like speaking about myself, because you forget what you really think.” Leonard Cohen On Being Interviewed


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That’s one of the reasons I don’t like speaking about myself, because you forget what you really think. You begin to mistake the description for the feelings. But though I dislike talking, I’m still talking. It takes a tremendous effort of will not to. Information is one thing and the application is another. Also it’s a matter of putting yourself into an environment where you are aided in doing the things you want to do and not tempted by the things you do not want to do. That’s why cloistered societies are established, not because the cloister is in itself an end. But just because in a period of training you want to give yourself a chance. If I want to give myself a chance to develop certain strengths I don’t put myself on a tour, or maybe I do to get the full negative imprint so that I don’t have to do it again. Like this tour is the last time I will do this sort of thing. And this is the last time I’d do this sort of an interview. I mean this doesn’t work for me as a viable way of self-improvement. It is forbidden … it is forbidden to talk about ways of getting high because we know that it is contrary to the goal. There is a Sufi story about a young man going on a journey to see a famous wise man and on his return his fellow student asked him: ‘And what did he say about transmigration of the soul?’ and his friend answered: ‘I don’t know. I didn’t hear what he said.’ ‘And what did he say about transubstantiation of matter?’ ‘I don’t know,’ his friend answered. And his fellow student asked slightly annoyed, ‘Well then why did you go?’ and his friend answered: ‘To see how he ties his shoelace.’ Now that is like a real guide to good journalism. The essence of the man never comes out of this kind of conversation. Just because the density of the printed page does not transmit these essences.quotedown2

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From Famous last words from Leonard Cohen by Paul Saltzman (Macleans: June 10, 1972)

“My life is very dull, and I like it that way” Leonard Cohen (2006)


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My life is very dull, and I like it that way. I have a little duplex in Los Angeles. My son [Adam] lives fifteen minutes away. My daughter [Lorca] lives downstairs. I’m happy if my kids come over for Sabbath dinner, and Anjani lives around the corner. Every once in a while, the sense of being a vehicle arises and one or two ideas actually seize me and I find myself writing or tinkering around with a chord change. quotedown2

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Zen, Lawsuits, and Poetry by Phoebe Hoban. New York Magazine: May 22, 2006. Originally posted Oct 14, 2014 at DrHGuy.com, a predecessor of Cohencentric